Kvetch Haven
Before more people misunderstood "KVETCH" as a person name, perhaps I should explain the meaning a little.
Kvetch actaully meant to complain and whine. This blog named "Kvetch Haven" so that I can complain a little, whine a little about life. Of course, this blog will not be solely on constant whinning and complain.
You Deserve Someone Better
whispered @ Tuesday, September 27, 2005 by stardusz
Listened to the radio today, heard an uncommon love story, but with a common ending. This guy written his story to the radio station. Let him be Guy A, then... Guy A met Gal B in his workplace. Both started off as strangers and ended up liking each other. Unlike an ordinary relationship, their relationship has to be an underground one. This is because both A and B are already in a relationship. After some time being together, B finally asked A who would he choose, B or A's girlfriend. In fact, to choose between B and A's girlfriend had been bothering A for quite some time... A has been comparing himself to B's current boyfriend and felt that he is inferior to him in many ways and could not possibly bring B any happiness. In the end, he choose to end their relationship. This must have hurt B a lot as A has not heard from B since he told her his decision.
This story reminded me of how passer bys of my life bid their farewell when they decided to leave me for a better _______ (fill in the blank, for me it would be someone). Said in many different ways, with an uncanny similar meaning: "You deserve somone better then me, I don't think you will have a future with me." Was it me, did many others received this similar message when someone decided to depart from your world?
It is really sad as it seems like they can foresee the future and everything will fall in place of what they think it will be. Why was I not allowed to paint this picture together? Instead, they begun painting it alone, adding my image but not my presence? This is really selfish, sometimes, I cannot help it but think that they are a selfish lot. Didn't they heard of this phrase: "Together, we make a difference" Or maybe I project an image that I cannot go through any suffering with anybody.
Often, I was told that their departure meant me well, was that true? How true is that? I began to suspect what was said to me is true. How could their absence meant me well when it brought me nothing but bitterness and misery? It just felt so fake to me.
Well, maybe I am just the passerby of everyone life and while I linger around, paint more sweet memories for me. Let the journery start off happy and end with sweetness. Reminiscing only the sweet memories.
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