Kvetch Haven

Before more people misunderstood "KVETCH" as a person name, perhaps I should explain the meaning a little.
Kvetch actaully meant to complain and whine. This blog named "Kvetch Haven" so that I can complain a little, whine a little about life. Of course, this blog will not be solely on constant whinning and complain.

Promises I Failed To To Fulfilled (To: J)

whispered @ Wednesday, November 30, 2005 by stardusz
Lying there in my parents' bed I was twisting and turning in agony. My medical leave was ending soon but my gastric flu (my initial suspect) was still as bad, or should I say I was wrong, it was getting worse instead.

I have promised J, a new friend I had made recently, to bring him to East Coast Park and have a crab session before he goes back to Denmark. But due to my stubborn gastric problem, I had no choice but to cancel the dinner date.

By around 11.15pm on Tuesday night (22 Nov 2005), I am well on my way to the hospital (Singapore General Hospital)... My limbs were turning cold with the pain that I am bearing and I still feel nausea. Along the way, J called me up to find out how am I coping with my sickness, I told him I was fine and promised him that I would update him. (I know he is really very concern about me. =) )

To J: if you are reading this blog now, I really want to apologize to you. I wanted to message you on the mobile but was too weak to do so when I finally got a room at around 3.30am on Wednesday morning. When you are back in Singapore next time round, I will definitely bring you around this little island and let you enjoy all the nice food in the town. I promise =)

Promises... Lots of promises and many are not fulfilled. This remind me of the phrase that someone once said "Promise are made to be broken." and I really cannot bring myself to agree with this someone. A promise should be fulfilled and not to be broken. A broken promise hurts more than a physical wound, it hurts and etched an emotional scar that will not be erased easily by time.

Ironically, throughout this lifetime, we made many promises that we failed to fulfil them.



PS: J, I miss you wish that we can be together real soon =)


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Dark Clouds Over Chua Chu Kang Ave 4 Carpark

by stardusz
Flipping through a local English tabloid newspaper I saw this catchy headlines on a couple found dead in a carpark at Chua Chu Kang Ave 4. Blah! It's just another couple's relationship that went the wrong way with both side of the family disagreeing them from seeing each other. They are foolish to think that they can get together if they kill themselves, I thought.

With no intention to read any further, I flipped the pages again. But just as I was turning the page, the sub-headlines caught my attention: Girl, 19 Man, 33. "He was a married man!" Being a nosy parker, since I have nothing much to do in my hospital stay, I read on.

Police have found the couple dead, an autopsy that followed revealed that the couple of cardiorespiratory failure however what trigger the condition was unknown.

There are many speculations in regards to their relationship. The dead girl's family insisted that guy, who was married, kept pestering and confessed his love for the girl. The guy's wife had told the press that it was the girl who has a crush on the guy himself and kep pestering him... yada yada yada...

Who is perstering who, I guess no one will ever know unless the dead speaks. Now that they are dead, I guess the best thing is to let them rest in peace.

Though the police have ruled out murder, but who knows, maybe, just maybe someone decided to be nasty and moved the bodies around after they are dead. Anyway, this is just my own assumption, sometimes things are not as simple as it could be as complicated as it seems.

Human life gets dyed with rumours and many die from rumours... It is an invisible knife that pierce right into you mind quietly. And, no, no updates from me in regards to this news unless the outcome of the suicide is something out of my speculation; someone being a more nosy parker then me went and moved the dead bodies.


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Me
Name:
Brenda
Gender & Status:
F & Single
Zodiac:
Taurus
Likes:
Sing Karaoke | Listening to Music & Nice Songs | Casual Drinking | Shopping (with friends) | Create gif/ flash/ html pages |
Fav. Sport:
Swimming | Inline Skating | (want to learn)Tennis |
Dislikes:
Backstabbers | Liars | Spicy Food | People with no Goals in Life |
My Dream Guy:
Humorous | Smart/ Intelligent | Love Me a lot | Care for Me | Faithful | Taller then Me |
What I'll Do for Him:
Shower Him with All My Love | Care for Him | Give Him a Listening Ear when He Needs One | Faithful to Him | Cheer Him Up When He Is Down
Current Fav. Song:
Wang Li Hong - Kiss Goodbye |
Current Fav. Soundtrack:
Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest |
Current Fav. Movie:
Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest |
An Activity that I Longed To Do Again:
Cruising down the Expressyway with my Dream Car (Mazda 6 or RX8) |





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