Before more people misunderstood "KVETCH" as a person name, perhaps I should explain the meaning a little.
Kvetch actaully meant to complain and whine. This blog named "Kvetch Haven" so that I can complain a little, whine a little about life. Of course, this blog will not be solely on constant whinning and complain.
Self Annihilate? Dolt!
whispered @ Sunday, March 20, 2005 by stardusz
Life begins when a sperm enters the egg. From that very moment on, the female body starts to produce amniotic fluid to protect the fetus till it is born. This is how we are created. Not many of us are born healthy, those that are born with defects or a sick body or both are struggling so hard to survive. Yet, many of those who are given the opportunity to be borned healthily choose to end their life without giving much of a thought.
Why? Due to Stress?
Stress is something that we dealt with everyday. While most of the people are trying their very best to deal with it, some simply waved white flag to Life, this is quite a sorry sight. Whenever one felt that stressed, they should find someone to talk to. Though talking might not help solving the problems they encountered, it will help to de-stress a person. Ending your own life is definitely not the best solution.
Am I a frog living in a well and judge things from the little bit of sky I've seen?
Thoughts of suicide did flashed across my mind some time back. However, the thought of my parents and siblings made me abandon this thought many times. I am my parents' pride and joy, it took them quite some time to conceive me. After I was born, they shower me with love and care, they spent a lot of time and effort to nurture me. So, who am I to terminate my own life? I believed I would really wrenched their heart if I hurt or kill myself and that is the last thing I want to do to hurt them. Besides, I am the eldest among my siblings, being a leader, I should lead by example; no matter how tough life will be, I will and I must overcome it. To a certain extend, I do play a rather crucial role in their life and I cannot abandon this role.
Recently, I felt that suicidal acts are actually an act to let the public know how platroon a person is; someone who is so coward and has no guts to face the challenge in life, thinking that ending life itself solved all the exisiting problems. Most people who committed suicide actaully revealed the selfishness in them; by not considering how their love ones will suffer after they left the world.
Ever tried imagining what will happen to your family after you left this world for good? No? Good, please don't imagine, please don't let yourself know that you will cowardly pass your unsolved problems to your love ones.
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