Before more people misunderstood "KVETCH" as a person name, perhaps I should explain the meaning a little.
Kvetch actaully meant to complain and whine. This blog named "Kvetch Haven" so that I can complain a little, whine a little about life. Of course, this blog will not be solely on constant whinning and complain.
Do You Expect to be a "Tai Tai**" After Married?
whispered @ Thursday, May 25, 2006 by stardusz
**Tai Tai - applies to the wife of a wealthy man who does not need to work for money. A Tai tai is a privileged lady of means. To qualify as a Tai tai, one must have lots of leisure time, lots of money and lots of gossip to exchange. [Extracted from Wikipedia, click here for full meaning]
That is the meaning of "Tai tai"; a lifestyle that has never cross my path of thought... Well, maybe not exactly true, I have thought about being a "Tai tai" only when I got overloaded and stressed with my work. However, this is the "career path" that I will never choose to persue. To me, that would be the most boring career that exists on this Earth to choose, and if I partook in that life course it would make me feel that I am wasting my days minute by minute.
Dreams and goals are what that drive people to live their life to the fullest; these are the engines of life! I really pity girls or women who have have abandoned those aspirations and choose to sponge on their husbands after marriage.
Often goalless and dreamless people can be easily led astray. This outcome is not hard to dissuade, just a little imagination (not the rootless kind though) will do the trick.
Imagine this; you are lonely and bored at home with nothing much better to do. How would you kill the boredom?
- Surf the internet to find chat mates or play online games to kill the boredom?
- Meet some friends to gossip about anything under the sun?
- Gamble; to bring thrill to the boring life?
- Go on shopping spree; since my husband provides me with money?
- Find a toy boy to entertain; since your husband is too busy to be with you in the day (this sound absurd but highly possible)?
Of course, there other activities that a "Tai tai" do when she is bored and lonely, but the above activities are the more common activities that I have heard of. Most of those that I have mentioned are activities that will lead to a broken marriage eventually, something that I do not want to ever, ever happen to my marriage in the future.
To tie things up, I will never want to give up the career and achievements that I have built up over the years for a "Tai tai" life. Getting bored and facing the walls in my house is the last thing I want to do. I want to earn my own money so that I can enjoy spending it at my own accord later. I want to live life to the fullest!
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